Recently, our Fabulous Fabian has turned 3 !!!
I still can’t believe he is 3. I’m honestly in shock, but let’s leave my feelings and emotions aside.
Those 3 years were the most amazing journey I’ve ever experienced in my life. We had ups and downs, great days and horrible days, but overall it was so fabulous I want to shout and scream now- THANK YOU FOR COMING INTO MY LIFE.
As you know, my son is half-Indian and half-Polish (well, he is British in reality :P). He is a mixed child and his personality totally reflects that. He has got a lof of Polish habits, but his hot Indian blood tries the best to be the most visible 🙂 Well, even his British side fights hard to be there noticeable 😛 Tough life 😛
Today, I would like to focus on his distinctive Indian habits, because they are the most interesting, funny and sometimes even a bit annoying (according to me).
5 very Indian habits of my half-Indian son
1. Chapati (Roti) is the best food ever. Fullstop. There is no ‘but’, ‘and’, ‘or’. Chapati prevails over everything else. If he doesn’t want to eat chapati it means he is ill or he is falling ill. So how to check whether my son is not well? Measure temperature? No. Look into his throat? No. Examine his whole body? No. Give him chapati? Yes !!! Wow, I should have become a doctor 😛
2. As you know (or not), we raise our son as multireligious/interfaith kid. He is Sikh and he is Catholic. We try to maintain both religions equal. We go to Gurudwara and to Church. However, Fabi has a strong preference to go to one of these places and it is – Gurudwara! If you ask him, why do you go to Gurudwara? You won’t hear – to pray. You will hear- to eat chapati! 😛 Ehhh… and we are back to point 1 😛
3. Have I just written Chapati is the best food ever? Well… Chapati has a huge contender and it is- Rusk & Chai! Yes…. I cannot believe it too 😛 Every morning when I ask him- What do you want for breakfast? I hear only 1 asnwer! Everyday! For weeks! AAAA! My ears cannot take it anymore 😛 I undertand sometimes, once a week or twice, but everyday? Eh… we went on compromise. Currently, he eats 3-4 times a week. Let’s see how it goes. Situation is evolving 😛 I guess he is addicted, isn’t he ? 😛
4. Polish children/toddlers go to sleep when children should go- around 8pm the latest. Indian children go to sleep when adults go- around 11pm or later. Now guess, which option our Fabulous Fabian has chosen? Yeah, you are right! Most of the time- the Indian timing 😉 My mum is always surprised whenever she sees him around 10.30-11pm running around or doing Peppa Pig puzzles 😛 Well, I can’t fight with his hot Indian blood 😛
5. Fabian loves listening to music. His number one option is nursery rhymes. That’s quite logical for his age 🙂 His number two option is Babaji’s path/Waheguru Simran (Sikh’s prayers). However, when my husband didn’t play any of them last week, Fabi looked like something was missing in his life :P. So daddy asked him what he wants to listen. Answer was straight- Do you want? AAA. Diljit Dosanjh drilled bhangra beat in his head! That is just the beginning of Bhangra love 🙂
Next Indian assessment at the age of 4 🙂