Have you ever…

Hi guys,

I hope you are having a great day. I am sure you all are crazy busy with hardly any spare time- so am I ! But when you finally get those few minutes for yourself, do you ever look back? Do you ever wonder what it would be like if…. if you:

– chose other career path

– moved to different city/country and start new life there

– stayed in your city/country

– had children earlier

– didn’t have children yet

– were single

– got married to somebody else etc.

I am pretty sure all of us have these moments when we think about our past decisions and their impact on our present life.

On the other hand, have you ever thought about what your life would be like in the future? Who will you become? Where will you be? What will you do?

I always thought that I had planned my life and I will live according to this plan (exceptionally, I would allow some minor changes).  I knew who I want to be, what I want to do and where I want to live. My plan also included having a family someday in the future.  The only unknown question in my perfect Life Plan was my future partner/husband. However, I was quite confident I will find ‘The Perfect One’. Obviously, ‘The Perfect One’ was not some random guy, he had to fulfil a list of conditions 😉 Well… these days I often ask myself two questions:

-Have you ever thought THIS would be your life? My answer is: Never.

-Would you change your life or something in it? My answer is the same: Never.

“Life is an open book full of blank pages, you write the story as you go”

Life is so unexpected and full of surprises. You cannot really plan it. Not following my Life Plan was the best decision of my life! 🙂 I am married to my soul mate/best friend/husband, having family spread over few continents, living abroad and being mum to multicultural and multilingual son 🙂 I am loving my life! Sometimes I am bit scared to say it out loud, so it is better I write it:P

I believe many of you can share similar story to mine. Isn’t it fabulous? 🙂


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